Tuesday, May 29, 2012

28 weeks and lots to think about...

Well, we've officially made it to our 2nd major milestone of 28 weeks!  Baby boy is kicking away and doing great!  But it feels a little bittersweet to be honest, as I get closer and closer to the due date, I can't help but think more and more of our sweet little baby that we lost.  I look ahead 10 weeks and wonder what the birth day will be like, will it be mostly happy with a little bit of sadness, bittersweet, difficult or pure joy?  I'm sure it will be a mixed bag of emotions, that's for sure.  We met with a birth plan counselor today who helps parents in similar situations deal with their emotions, questions, and helped us form a birth plan for when that day arrives (most likely late July or early August).  She was extremely supportive and caring, we're both so glad we met with her, she really helped calm our nerves, was able to answer our questions and provide much needed guidance at this time.  But man oh man, it was REALLY difficult to talk about it, that's for sure.  But she said that moms who cry are good moms so I can definitely check that one off the list!  I've been trying so hard to focus all my positive energy into baby A and keeping him safe and sound, the other stuff kind of slipped away for a little while.  But Aaron and I feel it's really important to keep a positive attitude, while at the same time acknowledging all that's happened and like I always say..."just keep swimming"! 


Here's a photo of Aaron and I from our maternity photo shoot that we did Mother's Day weekend with Ben and Emilie (they are due June 30!!!), it was such a fun day! Thank you Wink Photography!


Love you all and thank you so so much for your continued love and prayers :) xoxoxoxo

Monday, May 21, 2012

Labor inducing meat?



Hi everyone,
So, I have a theory that there's some kind of suspicious labor inducing product in the burger meat at the Freight House restaurant in Stillwater, MN.  My theory is backed up by 2 hospital-bound incidences that happened within 2 hours of eating a cheeseburger at the said restaurant.  Now, thankfully both incidences did not result in me going into full on labor, and baby is doing great (I had my 27 week check-up this morning - baby Sonnek is look'n good!)...but still...it's just a little bit too weird to be just a coincidence...

Cheeseburger Incident #1 -  Slightly embarrassing story but oh well...
A few months back, Aaron's parents were up from Fairmont for a visit, so we decided to show them around Stillwater, since we'd be moving into our new house there soon.  So, we walked around for a little bit (obviously this is in between bed rest phases), and decided to get some food at the Freight House, which is a restaurant right on the St. Croix river, lovely views. Food?  eh, not the greatest.  So, we all order - I got a cheeseburger and fries.  Everyone else ordered various sandwiches, salads, etc.  When we finished, I wasn't feeling that great so I asked my mom if we could just go back to her house so I could lay down (she lives very close) and then Aaron and his parents could walk around town a little more.  We agreed that was a good plan and mom and I drove back to her house.  I lay down on her couch and a few minutes later I feel this splash of wetness, you know where, and of course my first instinct is "oh my gosh, did I just pee my pants?", so, I go upstairs to the bathroom, still thinking that I peed my pants (which I've read isn't SO uncommon in pregnant women), proceed to find my mom's blow dryer and dry out my pants.  Meanwhile, my mom is downstairs wondering what the heck is going on as she can hear the blow dryer on full blast and knows I didn't take a shower or anything.  So, I finally dry out my pants but something just still doesn't feel right, so I call the on-call doctor and she said to immediately get in the car and drive down to United hospital, that my water just broke.  Now, this is a very serious issue and it could have been much worse, but in the end it turned out I had a premature rupture of membranes (known as pPROM in the medical world) and had "sprung a leak in the amniotic sac" - it sealed over a day later, thank God. 

Cheeseburger Incident #2
Last Tuesday night our friends Becca and Dave drove out to Stillwater to check out our new house and grab some dinner in Stillwater.  We had planned on going to the pirate bar (Smalley's Caribbean BBQ) but the electricity was out, so instead we headed next door, to the Freight House.  Thinking in the back of my head about the last time I was there brought a little chill to my spine, but that was months ago, and everything was going so well now!  So, anyways we sit down at a booth and order our drinks and food, I order a cheeseburger and fries (same as last time).  We chat for a while, everyone eats their food, and around 9pm we head home.  Great night with great friends so far!  Aaron and I get ready for bed about an hour later and at 10:30pm I start feeling some contractions.  I had felt a few before, maybe once or twice a week, but nothing like this.  So, I lay back down thinking they would go away, but they kept coming every 15 minutes or so, about 3-4 an hour.  I tried to get some sleep that night but it was pretty difficult, so at 5 in the morning I called the on-call doctor and told him what was going on and he instructed me to drive down to United hospital once again, just in case.  They weren't super worried, since apparently at 26 weeks gestation up to 6 contractions an hour is in the safe zone (doesn't that seem like a lot?), but anyways, I was steadily contracting every 15 minutes for about 10 hours, so they gave me a shot to stop the contractions, which helped, and then I was sent home after a few hours of fetal monitoring.  Baby was looking great and healthy, which is the most important thing :)

 I couldn't help but wonder, was it the meat?





Monday, May 7, 2012

2 pounds, tall and skinny!

Hi everyone, I'm 25 Weeks Today!
Hey Y'all,
It's been a couple weeks since I last posted, so I thought I'd send out an update after just having returned from a doctor appointment.  First of all, most of you know this- but we made it to our first major milestone of 24 weeks!  I'm 25 weeks today, things are still looking great, baby boy Sonnek is measuring in the 67th percentile for size, he's about 12 inches long, weighs 2 pounds (about the size of a small chuck roast is how they referenced it), I plan on checking that out at the grocery store this afternoon, haha!  He's very very active still, and using my tummy as a pushing off board, so yes, I can feel him a lot now, which I absolutely love!  Aaron loves it too, he gets the biggest smile on his face when he can feel him kick :)   The concern now is that I have complete Placenta Previa, which means I'll have to have a scheduled c-section, and possibly a short hospital stay before-hand, depending on how things go over the next couple months.  But after all we've been though so far in this pregnancy, a c-section just doesn't seem like a huge deal, and the doctors are keeping an eye on it very closely, so I'm not too worried. 

What's next?
  • We ordered a crib, changing table, and dresser for the nursery, so Aaron is looking forward to some major furniture assembly projects
  • I plan on hitting up some garage sales with my mom for baby clothes
  • My fabulous sister-in-law Emilie (she's 32 weeks preggo) and I are going to do a "maternity photo shoot" next Saturday, which should be interesting (it was free, so we decided to go for it). 
I want to thank everyone for your continued prayers and thoughts, they're working!!! Woo-hoo!
xoxo,
Amy and Aaron